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Bua tshinyi bantu kabatshiena banemekangana mu mêku abu?

Bua tshinyi bantu kabatshiena banemekangana mu mêku abu?

BUA TSHINYI BIDI NE MUSHINGA BUA BENA MU MÊKU KUNEMEKANGANA

Bena mu mêku bobu banemekangana, nebasombe mu ditalala.

  • Mukanda wa Les couples heureux ont leurs secrets. Les sept lois de la réussite udi wamba ne: mulume ne mukajende bobu banemekangana, badi balejangana dituku dionso mudibu banangangane mu “malu manene ne mu malu makese.”

  • Makebulula kampanda adi aleja ne: bana batu banemekangana batu babangata ne mushinga wa bungi, malanda adi pankatshi pabu ne baledi babu atu ashema, ne kabatu nangananga bapeta masama a mitu to.

TSHIUDI MUA KUENZA

Longolola malu pamue ne ba mu dîku diebe. Tshia kumpala, enza bua muena mu dîku yonso umvue tshidi kunemekangana kumvuija. Tshibidi, funda malu audi musue ne: muena mu dîku yonso enze ne adiye mua kuepuka. Tshisatu, yukidilanganayi bua malu anudi balongolola au bua nuenu bonso nuikale ne lungenyi lumue lua tshia kuenza bua kunemekangana.

“Malu adi bantu badi benza mudimu ne muoyo mujima balongolola adi bushuwa afika ku dikumbana.”—Nsumuinu 21:5.

Ikala tshilejilu. Patu bena mu dîku diebe benza bilema, utu ubamba anyi? Patubu baleja wabu mmuenenu, utu ubaseka anyi? Peshi patu muena mu dîku dienu uyukila nebe, utu umukosa ku mêyi anyi umumona bu muntu udiakuila anyi?

Mayele: Mona dikala ne kanemu bu dibanza dia kufuta muena dibaka nebe ne bana bebe. Kumonyi dikala ne kanemu bu tshintu tshidibu bakumbanyine anyi kabayi bakumbanyine to.

“Nuikale ba kumpala mu dipeshangana bunême.”—Lomo 12:10.

Nansha kuyi witaba tshidi muntu wamba, munemeka. Paudi wakula, epuka mêyi a buena aa: “Tshiwewe utu anu” anyi “kawewe utu anu.” Mêyi mashile a nunku adi mua kutapa muena mu dîku dienu ku muoyo anyi kunufikisha kubi.

“Diandamuna dia bupole didi dituyisha luonji, kadi dîyi dishile didi dilundula tshiji.”—Nsumuinu 15:1.

TSHITU BANTEMU BA YEHOWA BENZA

Bantemu ba Yehowa batu bakankamija bena mu mêku bua kunemekangana. Misangu ya bungi batu bapatula biena-bualu, mikanda, broshire, ne filme bidi biakula bua dinemekangana. Batu babipesha bantu kabayi babafutshisha tshintu.

BUA MULUME NE MUKAJENDE: Tshiena-bualu tshitu tshipatuka tshia ne: Diambuluisha kudi bena mêku tshidi mua kuambuluisha balume ne bakaji babu bua . . .

  • kuikala bateleji bimpe

  • kubenga kujilangana

  • kulekela kutandangana

(Keba tshiena-bualu tshia ne: “Diambuluisha kudi bena mêku” mu jw.org)

BUA BALEDI: Tshiena-bualu tshia ne: Diambuluisha kudi bena mêku tshidi mua kuambuluisha baledi bua kulongesha bana babu bua . . .

  • kutumikila

  • kuenza midimu ya kumbelu

  • kuambila muntu mêyi bu mudi: “bua luse, koku” ne “tuasakidila”

(Bala tshiena-bualu tshia ne: “Dikolesha bana” ne tshia ne: “Dikolesha bansonga” mu jw.org)

Tangila kabidi tshisakidila tshia ne: Les parents s’interrogent,” mu mukanda wa Les jeunes s’interrogent. Réponses pratiques, volume 1. (Bala tshiena-bualu tshia ne: “Les parents s’interrogent” mu jw.org)

BUA BANSONGA: Mu tshitupa tshia Bansonga ne bana ba bitende mudi biena-bualu, filme, ne mabeji adi ne biena-bialu kampanda. Bionso ebi bidi mua kuambuluisha bansonga bua . . .

  • kusomba bimpe ne baledi babu ne bana babu

  • kuakula ne kanemu kumpala kua baledi babu bua mikenji idibu babelela

  • kumanya tshia kuenza bua baledi babu kubeyemena

(Bala tshiena-bualu tshia ne: “Bansonga ne bana ba bitende” mu jw.org)

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