Esikutshelwa LiBhayibhili Kuhlala Kusinceda
IBhayibhili selincede amamiliyoni abantu ukuthi akhethe kuhle endabeni ezitshiyeneyo. Ake sixoxe ngezinye zakhona.
1. Umtshado
Abantu abanengi balemibono etshiyeneyo ngomtshado lokuthi kuyini okungenza indoda lomkayo bathokoze.
IBHAYIBHILI LITHI: “Kumele ngamunye wenu athande inkosikazi yakhe ngendlela azithanda ngayo, lenkosikazi kumele imhloniphe kakhulu umkayo.”—Kwabase-Efesu 5:33.
OKUTSHIWO YIVESI LE: UNkulunkulu nguye owasungula umtshado yikho uyakwazi ukuthi kuyini okungenza indoda lomkayo bathokoze. (UMakho 10:6-9) Nxa abantu abatshadileyo bangaqakathekisa okufunwa ngomunye wabo, bobabili bazathokoza. Indoda ethanda inkosikazi yayo iyamnakekela futhi iyatshengisa ukuthi ilendaba layo. Inkosikazi kumele ihloniphe umkayo njalo lokhu kukhanya ngendlela akhuluma ngayo layo langokumsekela.
OKUTSHIWO LIBHAYIBHILI KUYASINCEDA: UQuang loThi abavela eVietnam babebona angani abasoze bafa bathokoza emtshadweni wabo. Izikhathi ezinengi uQuang wayengelamusa. Uthi: “Ngangingelandaba lokuthi uThi uzwa njani, izinto engangizenza lengangizikhuluma zazimzwisa ubuhlungu.” UmkaQuang wayesefuna badivose. Uthi: “Kwasekungithwalisa nzima ukumthemba umkami lokuthi ngimhloniphe.”
Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uQuang loThi baqalisa ukufunda iBhayibhili basebezama ukusebenzisa okukhulunywa ku-Efesu 5:33. UQuang uthi: “Ivesi le yanginceda ukuthi ngibe lomusa lozwelo lokuthi ngizame ngamandla ami wonke ukuthi ngimthande uThi futhi ngimqakathekise. Ngangizama ukumnakekela ngakho konke akudingayo lokuba lendaba lokuthi uzwa njani. Ukwenza njalo kwamenza wangithanda futhi wangihlonipha.” UmkaQuang yena uthi: “Ngazama ukusebenzisa okukhulunywa ku-Efesu 5:33 ngokutshengisa umkami ukuthi ngiyamhlonipha. Lokhu kwenze wangithanda kakhulu futhi lami ngizizwa ngivikelekile njalo ngihlalisekile.”
Ukuze uthole okunengi ngendaba yomtshado, bala i-Vukani! No. 2 2018, elesihloko esithi “Izinto Ezingu-12 Ezenza Imuli Ithokoze” ku-jw.org.
2. Indlela Okumele Siphathe Ngayo Abanye
Abantu bajayele ukuphatha kubi abanye kusiya ngokuthi bangumhlobo bani, bavela kuliphi ilizwe, babukeka njani lokuthi bangena yiphi isonto kumbe ukuthi bayizitabane yini.
IBHAYIBHILI LITHI: “Hloniphani abantu bemihlobo yonke.”—1 UPhetro 2:17.
OKUTSHIWO YIVESI LE: IBhayibhili alisiniki imvumo yokuthi sizonde abantu bakwamanye amazwe kumbe izitabane. Kodwa lisikhuthaza ukuthi sihloniphe bonke abantu kungelani lokuthi bangumhlobo bani lokuthi bakhuluma luphi ulimi kumbe ukuthi banothile yini loba bangabayanga. (ImiSebenzi 10:34) Lanxa singabe singavumelani lalokho abanye abantu abakukholwayo kumbe singayithandi indlela abaphila ngayo, kumele sibahloniphe futhi sibaphathe ngomusa.—UMathewu 7:12.
OKUTSHIWO LIBHAYIBHILI KUYASINCEDA: UDaniel watshelwa ukuthi abantu abadabuka e-Asia babeyizitha zabantu bakubo. Lokhu kwenza ukuthi abazonde kakhulu abantu labo njalo ngezinye izikhathi wayebathethisa angavele ababone. Uthi: “Ngangingazisoli ngitsho ngizitshela ukuthi ngilwela ilizwe lakithi. Ngangingaboni lutho olubi ngendlela engangisenza ngayo.”
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uDaniel waqalisa ukufunda iBhayibhili. Uthi: “Kwasekumele ngitshintshe sibili indlela engangicabanga ngayo. Kwakumele ngibone abantu ngendlela uNkulunkulu ababona ngayo, ngingababandlululi kungelani lokuthi bavela ngaphi ngoba sonke siyafanana.” Indlela uDaniel abona ngayo abantu isitshintshile sibili. Uthi: “Angisazihluphi ngitsho ngokuthi umuntu uvela ngaphi.
Sengithanda wonke umuntu kungelani lokuthi ungumhlobo bani futhi sengilabangane abahlala emazweni atshiyeneyo.”Ukuze uthole okunengi bala i-Vukani! No. 3 2020, elesihloko esithi “Kuyini Okungaqeda Ubandlululo?” eku-jw.org.
3. Imali
Abantu abanengi bafuna ukunotha bezitshela ukuthi lokho kuzakwenza bathokoze njalo babe lekusasa elihle.
IBHAYIBHILI LITHI: “Ukuhlakanipha kuyavikela njengoba nje imali ivikela kodwa ulwazi lokuhlakanipha kungcono ngokuthi kuyayilondoloza impilo yalowo olakho.”—UmTshumayeli 7:12.
OKUTSHIWO YIVESI LE: Siyayidinga imali ukuze siphile kodwa lokhu akutsho ukuthi izasenza sithokoze loba isenze sibe lekusasa elihle. (IZaga 18:11; 23:4, 5) Okuzasenza sibe lentokozo yeqiniso kanye lempilo engapheliyo yikulandela lokho esikutshelwa nguNkulunkulu eBhayibhilini.—1 KuThimothi 6:17-19.
OKUTSHIWO LIBHAYIBHILI KUYASINCEDA: Enye indoda ehlala e-Indonesia okuthiwa nguCardo eyayigijimisana lenotho ithi: “Ngangikhomba ngophakathi, ngisenelisa ukuvakatsha loba ngaphi, ngithenga impahla ezidulayo, izimota kanye lezindlu.” Kodwa inotho ngamazolo yikho yacina imphelele. Uqhubeka esithi: “Kulomuntu owangiqila imali engangiyisebenzele okweminyaka yonke yaphonguphela nje ngesikhatshana. Ngangisebenze nzima impilo yami yonke kodwa akulalutho engasala lalo. Ngasala ngidanile ngizizwa ngingasimuntu walutho.”
UCardo waqalisa ukusebenzisa amacebo aseBhayibhilini akhuluma ngokusebenzisa kuhle imali. Kasagijimisani lenotho kodwa useziphilela impilo engelazinto ezinengi. Uthi: “Senginanzelele ukuthi into eqakathekileyo empilweni yikuba ngumngane kaNkulunkulu. Khathesi ngilala behle futhi ngiyathokoza okwamagama.”
Ukuze uthole okunengi ngokuthi iBhayibhili lithini ngemali, bala isihloko esithi “Imfundo Lemali Kungenza Ube Lekusasa Elihle Yini?” esiku-Nqabayokulinda No. 3 2021 ku-jw.org.
4. Indaba zemacansini
Imibono yabantu iyatshiyana kusiya ngokuthi yikuphi bona abakubona kuqondile endabeni zemacansini.
IBHAYIBHILI LITHI: “Lixwaye ubufebe. Ngamunye wenu kumele akwazi ukuthi angawukhuza njani umzimba wakhe ukuze uhlale ungcwele njalo usamukeleka, angabuswa zinkanuko zemacansini ezilobuhwaba, njengabantu abangamaziyo uNkulunkulu.”—1 KwabaseThesalonika 4:3-5.
OKUTSHIWO YIVESI LE: IBhayibhili likwenza kucace ukuthi kulemingcele uNkulunkulu ayibekele abantu endabeni zemacansini. Lisebenzisa ibala elithi “ubufebe” nxa likhuluma ngomuntu otshadileyo kodwa olala lomuntu angatshadanga laye, abantu abathengisa umzimba, ukulala lenyamazana, abantu abangatshadanga abalala bonke kanye lokuba yisitabane. (1 KwabaseKhorinte 6:9, 10) Ukuya emacansini yisipho uNkulunkulu asinike indoda lomkayo abatshadileyo kuphela.—IZaga 5:18, 19.
OKUTSHIWO LIBHAYIBHILI KUYASINCEDA: Owesifazana ohlala e-Australia okuthiwa nguKylie uthi: “Njengomuntu ongatshadanga ngangizitshela ukuthi nxa ngingaya emacansini lomunye umuntu uyabe ezangithanda kakhulu besengizizwa ngivikelekile. Kodwa ayisikho okwenzakalayo, ngasala ngisizwa ubuhlungu njalo ngizikhangelela phansi.”
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uKylie waqalisa ukufunda iBhayibhili wasesebenzisa lokho ayekufunda. Uthi: “Ngiyazibonela sibili ukuthi esikutshelwa nguJehova endabeni zokuziphatha kuyasivikela futhi kwenza singasali sisizwa ubuhlungu. Khathesi ngilomkami ongithandayo njalo ngizizwa ngihlalisekile ngoba ngilandela lokho uJehova afuna sikwenze. Ukulandela amacebo esiwathola eBhayibhilini kungincedile sibili.”
Ukuze uthole okunengi bala isihloko esiku-jw.org esithi “IBhayibhili Lithini Ngendoda Lomfazi Abahlala Ndawonye Bengatshadanga?”
UMdali wethu uyasitshela ukuthi kuyini okuqondileyo lokungaqondanga. Kumele sizimisele ukumlalela lanxa ngezinye izikhathi ukwenza njalo kungalula. Asithandabuzi ukuthi nxa singalandela lokho esikutshelwa nguJehova sizancedakala kakhulu siphinde sithokoze kuze kube nini lanini.