naujavan puchhde han
mainu message bhejan bare kee pata hona chaheeda hai?
:-) samajhdari naal message karan karke asi dosta naal jurre reh sakde ha.
:-( laparvahi naal message karan karke tuhadi dosti tutt sakdi hai te tuhade naa te kalank lagg sakda hai.
is lekh vich dassya javega ki tuhanu hetha likhiya galla bare kee pata hona chaheeda hai
is lekh vich eh vi dassya javega:
tusi kis nu message bhejde ho?
bahut sare naujavana nu laggda hai ki doojya naal gallbaat karan layi message karna bahut zaroori hai. message raahi tusi ohna sarya naal gall kar sakde ho jinha de number tuhade phone vich han jado tak tuhade maapya nu koi itraaz na hove.
“mere daddy nu vadiya nahi laggda jado mai te meri bhen mundya naal galla kardiya ha. je kadi sanu mundya naal gall karni paindi hai, taa sanu landline te, baithak vich ja kise di maujoodgi vich hi mundya naal gall karan di ijazat hai.”—lanaur.
tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda hai? aeve kise nu apna phone number den karke tusi museebat vich pai sakde ho.
“je tusi dhyaan nahi dinde ki tuhada number kehde-kehde kol hai, taa ho sakda hai ki tuhanu ajehe message ja photoa aaun jo tuhanu pasand hi na hon.” —scott.
“je ik munda-kudi aksar ik-dooje nu message bhejde rehnde han, taa ohna de dil vich chheti hi ik-dooje layi bhavnava paida ho sakdiya han.”—stephen.
bible kehndi hai: “syaana taa bipta nu vekh ke luk janda hai.” (kahauta 22:3) thodi-bahuti savdhani vart ke tusi bahut sare dukha to bach sakde ho.
sachi kahani: “meri ik munde naal dosti si atey asi dove ik-dooje nu bahut message bhejde si. mainu laggda si ki asi sirf change dost ha. mainu odo tak is vich koi kharabi nahi laggi jad tak os munde ne mainu dassya nahi ki oh dil hi dil vich mere naal pyaar karan lagg pya si. ajj jado mai beete dina bare sochdi ha, taa mainu laggda hai ki mainu os naal inna ghummna-firna atey inne message nahi bhejane chaheede san.” —malinda.
zara socho: tuhade khayal vich malinda nu eh gall pata laggan to baad ohna dova di dosti te kee asar pya hona?
kahani dobara likho! malinda ajeha kee kar sakdi si jis naal oh dove sirf change dost rehnde?
tusi kee message bhejde ho?
message bhejane kinne saukhe hunde han atey message milan te sanu khushi hundi hai. par asi eh gall bhull jande ha ki shayad lok sadde message da galat matlab kadd lain.
tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda hai? message da galat matlab vi kaddhya ja sakda hai.
“message raahi tusi bhavnava atey lehje nu nahi samajh sakde, fir bhave smilies ja hor sticker hi kyo na varte gaye hon. is naal galatfehmiya paida ho sakdiya han.”—briana.
“mai ajehiya kudiya nu jaandi ha jinha ne mundya nu idda de message bheje jinha karke ohna ne apna naa kharab kar lya atey oh akkh-matakka karan valiya manniya jandiya han.”—laura.
bible kehndi hai: “dharmi da mann soch ke uttar dinda hai.” (kahauta 15:28) is to asi kee sikhde ha? message bhejan to pehla os nu dobara parho!
tusi kado message bhejde ho?
samajh to kamm laindya message karan sambandhi tusi khud niyam banaa sakde ho.
tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda hai? je tusi message bhejde same apne aale-duaale lokaa da dhyaan nahi rakhde, taa ohna nu laggega ki tusi badtameez ho atey tuhade nerre aaun di bajaye oh tuhade to door bhajjange.
“message karan sambandhi asi shayad kayi zaroori galla nu saukhya hi bhull jayiye. kadi-kadi mai kise naal gall kardya ja sarya naal beh ke roti khandya message kardi rehndi ha.”—alison.
“gaddi chalaunde vele message bhejna khatarnak saabat ho sakda hai. sarrak to apnia nazra hataa lain karke tusi kise durghatna de shikar ho sakde ho.”—aen.
bible kehndi hai: “harek kamm da ik sama hai, . . . ik chupp karan da vela hai atey ik bolan da vela hai.” (updeshak di pothi 3:1, 7) eh gall bolan de naal-naal message karan te vi laagu hundi hai.
message karan layi sujhaa
tusi kis nu message bhejde ho?
;-) apne mummy-daddy diya hidayata manno.—kulussiya 3:20.
;-) apna phone number sirf gine-chune lokaa nu hi dyo. adab naal apna phone number ja koi hor nijji jaankari den to manha kar ke tusi apne andar oh hunar paida karoge jo vadde hon te tuhade kamm aavega.
;-) akkh-matakka karan vale message bhej ke haddo vadh apni jaan-pachhaan na vadhao. je ajehe message kaaran pyaar-muhabat diya bhavnava jaag jaan, taa tuhade hath sirf nirasha te udaasi hi laggegi.
“cell phone vartan de mamle vich mai apne mummy-daddy diya nazra vich changa naa kamaya hai. is layi ohna nu mere te poora bharosa hai ki mai samajhdari naal faisla karangi ki mai apne phone vich kehda-kehda number rakhangi.” —briana.
tusi kee message bhejde ho?
;-) apna message likhan to pehla khud nu puchho, ‘kee eh gall message raahi dassni sahi hovegi?’ shayad phone te ja aamo-samne gall karni sahi hove.
;-) jo gall tusi kise de muhre nahi keh sakde, oh message raahi vi na kaho. 23 saala di serah kehndi hai, “jo gall bol ke nahi kehi ja sakdi, oh message raahi vi nahi kehni chaheedi.”
“jekar koi tuhanu gandi tasveer bhejda hai, taa apne mummy-daddy nu dasso. is naal tuhadi raakhi hovegi atey tuhade mummy-daddy da tuhade te bharosa vi vadhega.”—sirvan.
tusi kado message bhejde ho?
;-) pehla to hi faisla karo ki tusi kis same apna phone nahi vartoge. oleevia naa di kudi kehndi hai, “roti khaan atey parhde vele mai apna phone apne kol nahi rakhdi. mai meeting vele phone band kar dindi ha taaki mera dhyaan vaar-vaar os vall na jave.”
;-) doojya da vi khayal rakho. (filippiya 2:4) kise naal aamo-samne gall kardya message na karo.
“mai apne layi niyam banaye han, jive dosta naal hunde hoye mai odo tak message nahi kardi jad tak ki bahut zaroori na hove. nale mai ohna nu apna phone number vi nahi dindi jo mere ziada nazdeek nahi han.”—yanli.
