NEA ENTI A EHIA SƐ YENYA OBU MA YƐN ABUSUAFO

• Nhoma bi a wɔato din The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work ka sɛ, sɛ obi bu ne hokafo a, ɔyɛ nneɛma bi de kyerɛ sɛ n’ani gye ne ho; “ɛnyɛ nneɛma akɛseakɛse a ɔbɛyɛ na ɛbɛkyerɛ, na mmom nneɛma nketenkete a ɔbɛyɛ no daa.”

• Nhwehwɛmu ama abɛda adi sɛ, sɛ mmofra sua sɛ wɔbenya obu ama afoforo a, ɛma wɔte nka sɛ wɔn so wɔ mfaso, wɔne wɔn awofo ntam yɛ papa, na adwinnwen ntaa nhyɛ wɔn so.

 NEA WUBETUMI AYƐ

Wo ne w’abusua mmom nyɛ nhyehyɛe. Nea edi kan, sɛ yɛka “obu” a, hwɛ hu sɛ wo ne w’abusua nyinaa nim nea ɛkyerɛ. Nea ɛtɔ so mmienu, suban a mopɛ sɛ abusua no mufo da no adi, ne nea mompɛ sɛ wɔda no adi no, kyerɛw to hɔ. Nea ɛtɔ so mmiɛnsa, wo ne w’abusua mmom nsusuw nhyehyɛe a moayɛ no ho, na ama obiara ahu nea obetumi ayɛ de akyerɛ sɛ obu ade.

Di kan yɛ wei ho nhwɛso. Sɛ w’abusuafo di mfomso a, woteɛteɛm gu wɔn so anaa? Sɛ wɔrekyerɛ wɔn adwene a, wotweetwee wɔn? Anaa, sɛ wɔrekasa wo ho a, ɛyɛ a womfii wɔn anaa wutwa wɔn ano?

Nyansahyɛ: Bɔ mmɔden hu obu sɛ, ɛyɛ biribi a ɛsɛ sɛ wode ma wo hokafo ne wo mma, na ɛnyɛ sɛ, ehia sɛ wɔyɛ biribi ansa na woabu wɔn.

Sɛ wo ne obi nyɛ adwene mpo a, da obu adi kyerɛ no. Ɛyɛ a nka nsɛm bi te sɛ, “Wo de, daa . . . ” anaa, “Wo de, da koro koraa nni hɔ a . . . ” Sɛ yɛka nsɛm a ɛyɛ yaw saa kyerɛ yɛn abusuafo a, ebetumi ahye wɔn na ama asɛm a ɛnyɛ asɛm mpo adan asɛm kɛse.